“Yellow Car! I Win!”: Fun Roadtrip Games

Our summer vacation last week involved a road trip, a very long drive to the Outer Banks of North Carolina.

We are seasoned car-trippers.  Last summer we travelled 499.5 miles to Orono, Maine.  (Yes, I mapquested the mileage.)

Here’s the funny part about our long car rides.

First, we have a small SUV with only one row of back seats.  And in that row are three, very tightly squeezed carseats.  Close carseats=close sibling love. (Maybe not.)

Second, our radio and CD player broke over a year ago, when our then, 2-year-old son placed a quarter into the CD slot.  Oh wait, I was able to retrieve the quarter with a part of tweezers.   It was the penny that caused the radio to short-circuit.  A CD still remains stuck inside.  Which one?, I’m not sure.

So, on long trips, we have to make the best of mom’s imagination and games.  Here are a few of our favorites… [Read more...]

Trouble at the Border

I am an experienced traveler. Patience is not my strong suit, but I know how to wait. I once killed six hours on the Russian – Mongolian boarder reading Tolstoy and trying not to worry about whether the guards would want a bribe.

Since she was little, my daughter has been a good traveler too.  Gone are the days when she can sit on my lap tearing up in-flight magazines and riding for free, but we still enjoy traveling when we can.

So I was thrilled when, several few months ago, we planned a family trip to Quebec City. It would be her first time in another country and despite a nail-biting wait for her passport, it finally came just a few days before our departure. Still, this was not going to be an ordinary trip. For one thing, it turned out my husband wasn’t going to be able to join us. Sad, but not insurmountable. I’ve flown alone with the munchkin before, to a business meeting in San Francisco and to see her godmother in Florida.

I didn’t have much time to pack, and admit I did panic a little bit when Air Canada announced (two days before our departure) that their baggage handlers and some other staff was on strike. OK then. Seriously?! [Read more...]

Travel, Adventure, Room Service

In a few days I am going to get on a plane and leave this country. There was a time when I was something of a globe trotter. My most famous trip to date was the 10 months I spent backpacking with my husband on a journey that, among other things, took us on a voyage that included the Trans-Mongolian railroad, with stops in Siberia.

Before you ask, yes, we did that before we had a child.

Most days n0w? I seem to travel a route that just loops back, over and over again between Jersey City and Hoboken. Last week I had lunch in Manhattan with an editor, near the Flatiron, but life is usually not that glamorous. (Jersey City, Hoboken, Lower Manhattan pretty make up my personal version of “the tri-state area” — it’s just the tri-city area.)

So yes, I AM excited to be leaving the U.S. and I am thrilled to have the opportunity to take my daughter with me. She’s excited about her brand new passport and I am excited for her to see all those blank pages, like her life before her, waiting to be filled up with her own stories. [Read more...]

Vacation?

My husband and I recently went on a cruise with our toddler, who just turned two. We had taken her on a cruise before, but when she was younger and pretty much just hung out with us and didn’t really have an opinion on anything. Husband and I looked at each other and declared that vacationing with little ones was not so bad, we scoffed at our friends with older children who told us how hard it could be.

Ha! Not us!

Yeah, well, turns out they were right!

Vacation with a two year old is pretty much just like being at home with a two year old, just with better scenery.

I didn’t know why I thought a cruise and the beautiful beaches of Bermuda would transform my moody two year old into a compliant little darling, after all, it always worked for me!

I have to say that Miss Lex DID enjoy the cruise and the beaches, but for mommy and daddy it was a very different cruise/vacation than we had ever been on.

So, for fellow travelers with toddlers this summer, here’s some things we learned: [Read more...]

Traveling Insecurities

My husband travels to Washington, D.C. for work at least once per year and he always wants the kids and me to come along on the trip. The perks are great: we get a free hotel room or apartment (depending on the length of the trip), reimbursed transportation, and since the Smithsonian museums are free, very inexpensive entertainment. Plus, the fact that my husband wants me and the kids around, instead of getting two weeks of peace and quiet, well, that’s amazing, too.

So, when my husband came home the other night and announced he had to take a two-week trip to D.C. this summer, and, of course, he wanted us to come, I should have felt lucky or grateful. Instead, I’m whining. Why? I’m nervous about taking a 5-year-old and a 2-year-old around Washington, D.C. all by myself. [Read more...]

Top 10 Travel Destinations… According to This Thirty-Something Mom of Three

Ok, so last week I was bitten by the travel bug (no, I promise it wasn’t a bedbug; although, I do worry about that as I contemplate international travel).   My husband and I were watching Current TV’s documentary with Ewan McGregor called Long Way Around.  He and his buddy travel on motorbikes through eastern Europe into Asia on their roundabout  journey from England to New York. 

After riding through Ukraine and spending the night with a very funny and drunk electric appliance store owner who liked to carry a machine gun, Ewan and his friend enter Russia and head to the city of Volgograd.  As they are making their way on a ferry down (or was it up?) the Volga River, in the background I see this enormous, colossal statue of a woman holding a sword. I am beyond intrigued and at the same time, scared.  I turn to my sexy Bulgarian husband, because like every American, I assume that because he grew up under communist rule he knows everything about Russia.

I ask him “WHAT is that THING???”  And since he was such a good little communist soldier as a child, he knows his Russian history (oh, how the fearless leader would be proud of him!).  He turns to me and explains, “The Motherland Calls.  It commemorates the Russian troops defeating Germany during WWII and thus, turning the whole course of the war.”   “WOW!  We are going there,” I state with conviction, “with all three kids.  I don’t care, we (more like, ‘I’) need to get there.  We need to start traveling again.”  

So here it is folks, my Top 10 Travel Destinations according to this thirty-something mom of three who has absolutely no extra spending money, but only grandiose dreams of exotic travel… like times before children.   Can you say Mega-Structures?  I am craving experiences of the mega-kind so I can be reminded that there is something greater than my somewhat predictable life.  And I want my children to experience the grandeur and awesomeness of our world.  And away we go… [Read more...]

A Traveling We Will Go

“Brrrrring!” It was after 9PM which, in a house with a preschooler, constitutes “late night.” Such phone calls are rare for us and it brought shivers down my spine. Was it an announcement of a death? Thank God, no. But it did change our summer.

The call came Tuesday night after regular season Little League had ended. “This is Coach B. We’d like your son to play travel baseball…..” The message was relayed with pomp and circumstance by my husband whose chest was puffed out like a crazed rooster displaying for a brood of hens. He did not, in all fairness, pose it as a fait accompli. He proposed it as a decision to be made by the Boy and his chauffeur (me, Mom).

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