Top Five Best NJ Parks and Playgrounds

With summer here, I think our kids need to get outside everyday for lots of fresh air, sunlight and exercise.  This was a long, cold and snowy winter, so now I like to take advantage of every non-raining day to explore the beauty of New Jersey.  It got me thinking about the best parks and playgrounds for kids, those with plenty to do that is fun and free.

So, here it is:

The Top Five Best Parks and Playgrounds for Kids, According to this 30-something Mom of Three

5) Mount Mitchill Scenic Overlook, Atlantic Highlands.  This park has an amazing view of Sandy Hook and New York City, as well as Brooklyn.  It homes Monmouth County’s 9/11 memorial, as well as, a great playground with two jungle-gym sets.  It is the highest natural point along the whole Atlantic coast and a great place to picnic.

4) Dorbrook Recreation Park, Colts Neck. This park is truly amazing with all it has to offer.  There is the Sprayground which is a free waterpark for kids.  Yes, FREE!  There is also a huge playground area with multiple jungle-gyms, swings and seasaws and an awesome sandpit, so don’t forget your kids’ shovels and buckets.  There are also multiple paved loops for moms to walk with strollers or for kids to ride their bikes.

All three of my kids love the sprayground.  The playground also has this fabulous rolly-slide that my middle son is obsessed with.  He loves to say, “ouch!ouch!ouch!” all the way down.  Don’t worry, it doesn’t really hurt, he just thinks it’s funny. [Read more...]

Instilling a Love of Nature in my Children

In a recent post, I wrote about how I am trying to instill a love of reading in my children.  I also want my children to have love and respect for nature and the world around them. 

Growing up in Wisconsin, I spent a lot of my time outside.  I could be found riding my bike around the neighborhood, building forts out of snow, helping my parents in the garden, playing with one of our many pets or lying in the grass and reading a book.  My memories are full of camping trips with my family, the time my brother woke me up in the middle of the night so I could see the northern lights from our backyard (one of the most beautiful sights I have ever seen) and the numerous caterpillars I held in my hands.  When I was deciding whether or not to move out to the east coast, it was my proximity to the ocean that convinced me to stay.  The first time I saw the ocean, I was ten years old.  The second time I saw the ocean was the day I stood on the beach and decided I would not move back to my birth state.

So here are a few things my husband and I have been doing to instill a love of nature in our children. [Read more...]

Still a Happy Meal?

I heard on the local news this morning that some New York City council members are introducing a bill today to ban fast food companies from including toys in kid’s meals, a measure similar to one that has already passed in San Francisco.

In a statement, City Council Deputy Majority Leader Leroy Comrie said, “While I recognize that ensuring children have access to, and eat more, nutritious meals is ultimately the responsibility of their caretakers, the City Council can empower parents by making it harder for the fast food industry to target children with predatory marketing techniques.”

If you are not already familiar with recent measures taken in NYC on nutritional issues, NYC already bans trans fats in restaurant foods and requires chain restaurants to display calorie counts.  The New York City Health Department is also involved in the National Salt Reduction Initiative, a national effort to prevent heart attacks and strokes by reducing the amount of salt in packaged and restaurant foods.

State and federal governments do have a right to be worried: the medical costs of obesity totaled about $147 billion dollars in 2008.  Here’s where parents should be worried too: 1 of 3 children in the United States is considered overweight or obese.

My husband and I do not take our children to eat at fast food restaurants.  We have tried to maintain a healthy lifestyle ourselves, so it makes sense that we would extend this to our children.  I believe that if my children see me making healthy decisions about what I eat, they will prefer to eat more healthy, too.  However, while I struggle just like other families with getting my kids to eat more vegetables,  they do like to eat whole wheat bread and lots of fruit.  [Read more...]

From Generation X to the Sandwich Generation

I am a member of Generation X.  As anyone born between 1961 and 1981 knows, change is more the rule than the exception for us.  I fit this definition perfectly.  After college I decided to move from Wisconsin, where I was born and raised, to get a job in New York City.  My parents didn’t want me to go, but they couldn’t stop me.  I was bound and determined to get out of a place where I felt like I ‘didn’t fit.’  I managed to find a job and an apartment within the first two weeks I was in New York (after all, it was during the prosperous 90’s).  I flew home to pack the rest of my things, and quickly left to start my new life in the city.

Just 22 years old, I had no idea the impact moving over 1,000 miles away was going to have on my life and my relationship with my family.  My eldest sister had her first child that year.  My brother was single.  My parents were in their late fifties and healthy.  In the past fifteen years, my sister has had two more children.  My brother married, had a child, and got a divorce.  I got married and had two children.  And my father developed Alzheimer’s disease. [Read more...]

My Mommy-mobile

When we moved to the suburbs from Manhattan, we had like many other New Yorkers our City Car.  It was old, it was dented, it was scraped, it was dirty.  But none of this mattered, these were all the scars of a life well-lived in New York City, of fitting into spaces that should have been way too small, proof of the trafficy trips we’d taken to beaches, hiking trails, and the much-appreciated airport pick-ups when out-of-town guests came to visit us.

Once we got to the suburbs, our City Car didn’t look so good anymore. What once had appeared well-worn, now looked worn-out. We initially scoffed at people with their oversized SUVs, and even more-so, we couldn’t believe some people had the audacity to own two cars. We couldn’t imagine needing more than one car, but within weeks we couldn’t imagine how we had lived that long with just the one.  

We were also about to have our third kid, so we decided that yes, we would become yet another suburban family with the gigantic SUV.  And a few weeks later I was happily driving around in my seats-seven SUV.  And I loved my new car. [Read more...]

Happy Momaversary to Me

So it’s your kid’s birthday.  If you’re a mom blogger, that means writing a sentimental post that fondly recalls the first moment you locked eyes with your sweet newborn, retells an amusing anecdote from years past, and declares your unconditional love for the being you created.  Now keep in mind that I’m not mocking these birthday posts.  God knows I’ve written more than a few, and I absolutely love reading them. 

This year, however, as my oldest son turns 7, I’ve decided to take a different approach to the birthday post.  This year I’m celebrating me.  It is, after all, not just the kiddo’s birthday.  It’s also the 7th anniversary the day I became a mom—my “momaversary”!  In honor of the occasion, I hereby dedicate the following post to me.

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I Heart NJ

My time as a New Jersey resident can still be measured in days and weeks, not months and years, and I have so much more to learn about what it means to be a Jersey-ite. (Like that even, what do you call yourself in Jersey?)
 
And yes, some of my New Yorker prejudice remains when it comes to assessing New Jersey fairly and accurately. Even though I know they are (mostly) not true, the Jersey stereotypes stay in my head. Jersey smells. Everyone has big hair. And wears sweat suits.  Bedazzled sweat suits.  And the accent – fuggedaboutit!  Not to mention the turnpikes, the traffic, and the malls. Oh, those infamous New Jersey malls. 
 
Yet, even with memories of Manhattan still prominent in my mind, I am willing to admit that so far I’m loving my Jersey life. Now I live here, in a welcoming town with friendly neighbors and excellent schools. The bagels aren’t bad. The gym is totally Jerseyfied and amazing. And yes, as my Jersey born-and-bred husband keeps reminding me, I will never have to pump my own gas again (uh, honey, it’s actually that you won’t have to pump my gas any more). [Read more...]

Let's think about 9/11 today, too

I had The Today Show on that morning as I got dressed, and heard Katie Couric say something about a plane hitting one of the Twin Towers. “Wow, bad accident,” I thought, finished doing my hair and dashed out. I lived in Hoboken at the time, and usually took the bus to work. But the bus stop was crowded, and I decided to take the ferry across.

“Did you hear the plane hit the tower?” I asked the ticket seller.

“No,” she said, “but I heard the second one.”

Oh. That was the first moment I realized something was wrong. But I boarded the ferry anyway and headed to the top deck. There weren’t that many people onboard. As it chugged across the Hudson, the Towers came into view, smoke and flames were pouring out of both of them. I was so horrified, all I could do was gasp. But I had hope the firefighters could contain the flames. During those first few minutes, we all had hope. After all, it appeared that only the top part of the buildings had been affected, and I had faith in New York City’s firemen.

On the shuttle bus to my job, everyone who had a cell phone (they weren’t quite as prevalent back then) was on theirs. And that’s the first moment I heard the word “terrorism.” [Read more...]

In Memory of Those Touched By 9/11

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