Manicure In The Wild

The older woman looked down at my 5-year old while the Fashionista eyed the gentle crone. They sized each other up, realized they were kindred in spirits, and with me looking safely on, retreated to a back table. The woman laid out the paints – blue, green, yellow, pink, orange. The soon-to-be kindergartener eyed them before carefully choosing her favorites. As my daughter sat statuesque and still, the kind woman methodically began to paint. The manicure had begun.

What made this encounter unusual was the setting. This was no nail salon. It was not in a house or beauty parlor. It was at the Lewis Morris State Park. [Read more...]

Confessions of a Slacker Mom……

Am I proud to be a “slacker mom”?   I am not sure; maybe a bit guilty, but not enough to want to change.  That sounds right.

I work full time, I only have one kid (who is really amazing and easy), and I still have a full time Nanny, as well a housekeeper that comes in twice a month.  My husband does the laundry (if the Nanny hasn’t gotten to it first) and he takes care of the lawn, and in general straightens up the house and fixes whatever needs fixing.

I go to exercise class about 5 days a week, get manicures and pedicures regularly, the occasional facial, of course hair coloring and assorted “restorative hair” treatments, and after a major trade show I will work in a massage.

Is this bad?  I earn a living so I can have these things in my life and still take care of my family.  Should I feel guilty? [Read more...]