NJ and The Fall… Perfect Together

What’s not to love about living in the great Garden State during the Fall. Whether you live in the city or suburbs, with the abudance of farms, beaches and rivers, a short car or train ride can take you to magical destinations if you let it. For this week’s Facebook Question Friday, we asked our readers what they LOVE about New Jersey in the Fall.  Here’s the fantastic response.. and a warning: After reading, you’ll probably crave an apple pie!

 

  • Heather Roberge Gordon: Exactly what Nikki said! :-)

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Contributor Feature: Jennifer Burden

Jennifer Burden grew up in Brick, NJ and began blogging, here, at Jersey Moms Blog, when we first launched!  Don’t recognize her name?  She first began documenting her fertility journey under the pen name of “Veronica Samuels“.  She says that she chose a pen name because she didn’t feel brave enough writing under her own name when discussing her fertility journey. 

Through writing as Veronica, Jennifer has found strength through the community of mothers on the internet and around the world.  She has since dropped her pen name and launched World Moms Blog, an international collaborative motherhood community. World Moms Blog writes from 15 countries now and is growing.  She also will be in attendance at the United Nation’s Foundation’s Social Good Summit in New York City coming up next week.  This stay-at-home mom is getting things done!  [Read more...]

Prepping For Fun

We’re getting ready for our family vacation in August. It’s a biggie – driving down to Washington, D.C. for a few nights before heading down to South Carolina for few more. The kids are all excited. Really, they love any change of scenery. And hubby is doing is part to prepare. He’s actually had a lot to do: get the car serviced, have the mail stopped, devise a tentative itinerary (after all, we have kids so it has to be somewhat flexible). Oh, and he has to pack.

Yeah, that’s it.

As with all moms, the bulk of the preparation work is on me. Not that I’m opposed to vacations, but let’s face it. Wives tend to do more prep than the husbands. The males are responsible for one person: themselves. We handle the other living things in the house: kids, pets, even plants. [Read more...]

“Yellow Car! I Win!”: Fun Roadtrip Games

Our summer vacation last week involved a road trip, a very long drive to the Outer Banks of North Carolina.

We are seasoned car-trippers.  Last summer we travelled 499.5 miles to Orono, Maine.  (Yes, I mapquested the mileage.)

Here’s the funny part about our long car rides.

First, we have a small SUV with only one row of back seats.  And in that row are three, very tightly squeezed carseats.  Close carseats=close sibling love. (Maybe not.)

Second, our radio and CD player broke over a year ago, when our then, 2-year-old son placed a quarter into the CD slot.  Oh wait, I was able to retrieve the quarter with a part of tweezers.   It was the penny that caused the radio to short-circuit.  A CD still remains stuck inside.  Which one?, I’m not sure.

So, on long trips, we have to make the best of mom’s imagination and games.  Here are a few of our favorites… [Read more...]

Trouble at the Border

I am an experienced traveler. Patience is not my strong suit, but I know how to wait. I once killed six hours on the Russian – Mongolian boarder reading Tolstoy and trying not to worry about whether the guards would want a bribe.

Since she was little, my daughter has been a good traveler too.  Gone are the days when she can sit on my lap tearing up in-flight magazines and riding for free, but we still enjoy traveling when we can.

So I was thrilled when, several few months ago, we planned a family trip to Quebec City. It would be her first time in another country and despite a nail-biting wait for her passport, it finally came just a few days before our departure. Still, this was not going to be an ordinary trip. For one thing, it turned out my husband wasn’t going to be able to join us. Sad, but not insurmountable. I’ve flown alone with the munchkin before, to a business meeting in San Francisco and to see her godmother in Florida.

I didn’t have much time to pack, and admit I did panic a little bit when Air Canada announced (two days before our departure) that their baggage handlers and some other staff was on strike. OK then. Seriously?! [Read more...]

Travel, Adventure, Room Service

In a few days I am going to get on a plane and leave this country. There was a time when I was something of a globe trotter. My most famous trip to date was the 10 months I spent backpacking with my husband on a journey that, among other things, took us on a voyage that included the Trans-Mongolian railroad, with stops in Siberia.

Before you ask, yes, we did that before we had a child.

Most days n0w? I seem to travel a route that just loops back, over and over again between Jersey City and Hoboken. Last week I had lunch in Manhattan with an editor, near the Flatiron, but life is usually not that glamorous. (Jersey City, Hoboken, Lower Manhattan pretty make up my personal version of “the tri-state area” — it’s just the tri-city area.)

So yes, I AM excited to be leaving the U.S. and I am thrilled to have the opportunity to take my daughter with me. She’s excited about her brand new passport and I am excited for her to see all those blank pages, like her life before her, waiting to be filled up with her own stories. [Read more...]

What I'm Doing This Summer

I’m not sure if people are desperate for summer (with good cause after Jersey’s abysmal winter) or just making conversation, but I’m getting the “what are you doing this summer” question a lot these days.  I guess it makes sense when camps are already recruiting, bathing suits are in all the major department stores, and barbeque grills are lined up outside Home Depot. 

We plan one major vacation during the summer, for which I’m grateful since we never went on vacation when I was growing up.  During my childhood, if the family made it out to the Poconos for a weekend, it was a major event.  Before the kids, hubby and I went to Europe several times during which we  marvelled at countries so old that ours, in comparison, is an embryo.  My son was born a year before 9/11 and after that calamity, my husband didn’t want to fly anywhere for several years.  We limited our treks to a four-hour journey from our home.  We had wonderful times in Boston (a great town for kids), down the Jersey shore, and two years in a row we went to Ocean City, Maryland (another great place for children).  The last trip to Ocean City was miraculous for our family because it was in The Jolly Rodger Waterpark, surrounded by hundreds of gallons of rushing water, that we received the phone call from our adoption agency that we’d been matched with our daughter who was thousands of miles away, across the water, in China.  [Read more...]

Top 10 Travel Destinations… According to This Thirty-Something Mom of Three

Ok, so last week I was bitten by the travel bug (no, I promise it wasn’t a bedbug; although, I do worry about that as I contemplate international travel).   My husband and I were watching Current TV’s documentary with Ewan McGregor called Long Way Around.  He and his buddy travel on motorbikes through eastern Europe into Asia on their roundabout  journey from England to New York. 

After riding through Ukraine and spending the night with a very funny and drunk electric appliance store owner who liked to carry a machine gun, Ewan and his friend enter Russia and head to the city of Volgograd.  As they are making their way on a ferry down (or was it up?) the Volga River, in the background I see this enormous, colossal statue of a woman holding a sword. I am beyond intrigued and at the same time, scared.  I turn to my sexy Bulgarian husband, because like every American, I assume that because he grew up under communist rule he knows everything about Russia.

I ask him “WHAT is that THING???”  And since he was such a good little communist soldier as a child, he knows his Russian history (oh, how the fearless leader would be proud of him!).  He turns to me and explains, “The Motherland Calls.  It commemorates the Russian troops defeating Germany during WWII and thus, turning the whole course of the war.”   “WOW!  We are going there,” I state with conviction, “with all three kids.  I don’t care, we (more like, ‘I’) need to get there.  We need to start traveling again.”  

So here it is folks, my Top 10 Travel Destinations according to this thirty-something mom of three who has absolutely no extra spending money, but only grandiose dreams of exotic travel… like times before children.   Can you say Mega-Structures?  I am craving experiences of the mega-kind so I can be reminded that there is something greater than my somewhat predictable life.  And I want my children to experience the grandeur and awesomeness of our world.  And away we go… [Read more...]

Checking In

He grunted as he pulled up his pants, slid his belt through pant loops, buckle clanging. I hurried to zip my boots while balancing a laptop against the counter with my left hand.

Undressing in the airport… coats, belts, shoes removed hastily and just as quickly put back in place… it’s par for the course for travelers.  On one recent excursion I snapped a picture of a sign that hung above two chairs announcing a “Recombobulation Area.” 

I travel periodically for work and always find myself amused at this intimate dressing and undressing among strangers.  Grateful for any security measures that might keep us safe, it poses particular challenges when traveling with business colleagues.  It is no longer a secret that I wear sweat socks over my tights, under my snazzy leather heeled boots.  Way to ruin a second impression, I remember thinking the first time I de-booted with the boss… and swore I’d check travel schedules to avoid the same mistake in the future. [Read more...]

What Makes Your Child's Eyes Light Up?

What really makes your child “light up” with excitement?  Does he have a tendency towards airplanes, or trains, or dogs or guitars?  Does she love the clouds in the sky, or horses, or dance?  What are their interests?  You may already know what it is just when I ask the question.  And, if you do know, then what can we parents do with this knowledge?  That was the question I kept asking myself.

For my daughter it is dinosaurs.  She respects that many of her girlfriends have had princesses on their birthday cakes, but for her, it was a giant pink T-Rex that graced her cake.  She says she likes princesses, too, but she REALLY likes dinosaurs.  So, what fun things near to New Jersey can we do that are “dinosaurish”? [Read more...]