saltyshannon

About saltyshannon

Shannon is… wife to Stephen and mother to three kids, daughters Nyla,7, and Skye,4, and stepson Duncan, 12. For the moment she lives just across the river from Sandy Hook but will soon be moving to Oceanport. In addition to being a stay at home mom, Shannon is a summertime waitress, a writer, a sailor, an exercise junkie, a beachcomber. She is not a baker, a good housekeeper or a class mom. In her b.c. life Shannon was managing editor of The Hub newspaper and a freelance writer for a boating magazine. Her current dual obsessions are banana chip ice cream form Gracie and the Dudes in Sea Bright and the new Starbucks light java chip frap.

Laundry Wench Takes a Week Off

I have a renewed and deepened respect for the working mom. I hesitate to use the phrase, “profound respect,” because it sounds trite and patronizing, but that’s pretty close to how I feel. At the very, least I have a sense of awe for moms who somehow raise their children and earn a living wage, especially those of you freelancers and bloggers who work from home.

I’m no stranger to work, you know, the kind where they actually pay you. In fact, every summer I trade my sweats for an apron and sling seafood and drinks four nights a week. But that is an eight-week gig which makes it more of a change of pace than anything else. What’s more, when I work, my teacher husband is off and he gets to be Mr. Mom and make French toast for dinner four nights a week.

All this to say, I was wholly unprepared for the recent full-time editing project I took on. If being a working mom is a juggle, being a mom working at home, while her kids are on spring break and she and hubby are remodeling their house, is like a juggle on roller skates, with a blind-fold.

When my friend Amy offered me the four-day job, I jumped at the chance to earn a few bucks and get my foot in the door of an online news organization with lots of future opportunities. What you should know about me, right at the outset, is I really pride myself in leaping before I look. I’m really, really good at taking on a new adventure without any thought to how insane it might be. It’s a gift that has propelled me to rock climb in Joshua Tree National Park with a guide I found in the back of Outside Magazine, and a curse that has landed me in foreign countries with not enough cash for cab fare. [Read more...]

How I Found Myself in the Lost Year

By all accounts I was a horrendous waitress – forgetful, clumsy, nervous and just a little too eager to please. I screwed up orders on a regular basis, which would send the kitchen into chaos. I dropped beer bottles and spilled drinks. I forgot to ask for a temperature on steak orders. Once, a table even had to help me open their bottle of wine. Pathetic.

It should have been no surprise then when, in my first summer at the popular seafood restaurant, the owner pulled me aside one day and said, “If you don’t get it together, you’re out of here.” Still it was a jarring blow for an overachiever type like me.

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